Assisted Stretching in Asheville: A Whole-Body Approach to Aging Well, Restoring Mobility, and Regulating Your Nervous System

Skyler Wilds assisting a client with a hamstring stretch on a padded table in Asheville studio

Introduction

Most people I meet in Asheville come in thinking they just need a good stretch. Tight hips, stiff shoulders, limited rotation in the spine — they assume it’s just part of getting older, or sitting too much, or doing the same movement patterns for years.

And they're not wrong.

But the truth is, most “tightness” isn’t just about the muscles. It’s about joint restrictions, outdated neuromuscular patterns, and the nervous system trying to keep you safe in ways that limit your movement.

That’s why I developed Dynamic Body Work.

Yes, we start with assisted stretching. But the real results come from how we combine it with eccentric resistance, joint decompression, PNF (proprioceptive neuromuscular facilitation), and sensorimotor repatterning — techniques that teach your body to move with more freedom and less resistance from the inside out.

Let me walk you through how this works.

Why Assisted Stretching is the Foundation (But Not the Whole System)

When most people think of stretching, they picture passive relaxation: someone pushing on their limbs while they lie back. And while that can feel nice in the moment, it rarely leads to durable change.

I use assisted stretching differently.

In our sessions:

  • You actively engage your muscles in the stretch using guided resistance (especially eccentrically).

  • We work at the joint level, not just soft tissue, restoring movement in places like the hips, spine, and shoulders that tend to calcify over time.

  • I pace the session to engage your nervous system safely, so your brain actually allows the new range to stick.

Think of it like this: Your body won’t unlock what it doesn’t trust. Our job is to earn that trust by gradually increasing load, feedback, and joint space in a way your system can integrate.

How Eccentric Resistance and Joint Decompression Deepen the Work

One of the core insights from my method is that muscles don’t just need to be long — they need to be strong while lengthening.

This is where eccentric resistance comes in.

Instead of just holding a stretch, we train the muscle while it elongates. That does two things:

  1. It increases strength in lengthened positions, making new mobility more usable.

  2. It retrains the nervous system to stop bracing and start adapting.

I also use joint decompression strategies inspired by systems like Kaiut Yoga and advanced PNF protocols. These target the joint capsule itself — the deep, often-overlooked structures that affect movement at the root.

This is especially helpful if you’ve had:

  • Previous injuries or surgeries (hip, spine, knee, shoulder)

  • Long periods of repetitive or sedentary movement

  • A sense that “stretching just doesn’t help anymore”

You don’t need more force — you need smarter input.

 
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What Happens in a Dynamic Body Work Session

Each session is tailored to your body and your goals.

You stay fully clothed and lie on a padded table while I guide you through a sequence of supported movements. At times you’ll be actively resisting or holding, other times simply receiving feedback from pressure or stretch.

Here’s what we might focus on:

  • Hamstring decompression using resistance and joint traction

  • Shoulder or thoracic rotation paired with eccentric control

  • Hip capsule opening using long-lever joint positions

  • PNF-style reeducation, helping your brain let go of outdated patterns

You’re not just lying there. You’re learning — through your body — how to move more efficiently and fluidly again.

👉 Book a Dynamic Body Work Session if this sounds like what you’ve been looking for.

Understanding Mobility Through a Nervous System Lens

If your nervous system doesn’t feel safe, it won’t let you move.

This is why many people plateau with traditional stretching or exercise: they push into range without addressing the protective reflexes embedded in their neuromuscular system.

My approach trains your system to sense safety through structure and control.

This is based on one of the core insights from my treatment philosophy: The body is a prediction engine. It doesn’t respond to what’s happening now — it responds to what it thinks will happen next.

That’s why slow, precise loading — especially with eccentric resistance and traction — allows us to shift the predictions your brain is making about movement. And that’s what creates sustainable mobility change.

Real-World Wins: What My Clients Report

Clients often come to me wanting one simple thing: to move better.

Sometimes it’s so they can:

  • Get back on their bike after a hip replacement

  • Garden without locking up their low back

  • Go for hikes without knee stiffness or ankle collapse

  • Sit or sleep more comfortably after a car accident

And what they walk away with is:

  • More range and freedom of motion

  • Less rebound tightness or post-activity soreness

  • Improved posture and movement control

  • A sense of confidence in their body again

And occasionally, surprising things happen:

  • Improved sleep quality

  • Emotional relief from long-held tension

  • Better breath and nervous system regulation

All of which makes sense. Because when the body starts working better, everything else has a little more room to breathe.

Why This Method Works When Others Don’t

Here’s the honest truth: most mobility interventions fail because they don’t target how the brain and body work together.

Massage feels great, but it’s passive.
Stretching helps, but without load, it doesn’t last.
Yoga is powerful, but often misses joint-level restrictions.

What makes Dynamic Body Work different:

  • We combine stretch + strength + sensory input

  • We target both joints and muscles

  • We train the nervous system to stop overprotecting

This creates change that your body remembers.

👉 Want to feel it for yourself? Schedule a Dynamic Body Work session — I’ll guide you step by step.

From Stiffness to Stability: How the Body Learns to Move Again

The goal of this work is not just flexibility. It’s resilient movement.

We’re not chasing range for its own sake — we’re restoring options, so your body can move in whatever way your life requires.

Whether that’s gardening, hiking, dancing, lifting, or simply walking without restriction, Dynamic Body Work teaches your system how to:

  • Open new range

  • Stabilize that range

  • Make it available when you need it

Mobility is earned, not forced.
And it starts by working with the brain-body system that controls it.

Ready to Move Better? Here’s Your Next Step

If you’re ready to stop chasing temporary relief and start building true freedom of movement, let’s work together.

My approach starts with assisted stretching, but it’s backed by a full system of nervous system-informed, joint-specific, and strength-integrated techniques designed to help your body move better — and stay that way.

🔹 Book a Dynamic Body Work Session
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Let’s move better, intelligently.

Skyler

Disclaimer:
The information in this article is educational in nature and not intended as medical advice or a substitute for licensed healthcare. I am not a licensed massage therapist or mental health provider. I offer body-based wellness sessions focused on mobility, awareness, nervous system regulation, and emotional embodiment.

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